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I’ve been getting a lot of questions about things you can do to investigate colleges and express interest in colleges so that you can decide if a college is a serious enough contender for a campus visit (which costs a lot of time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], effort and money if the college is farther than 100 miles).
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4. Save your hands — you may want to print out a sheet of mailing labels with your name, address and phone number. That way when you stop at the booth, if they have any card they want you to fill out, you can slap the label on it instead of handwriting your information over and over again.
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Here are five tips to make the most of attending any college fair:
One solution is to attend college fairs. One of the biggest fairs around are the NACAC College Fairs. There are smaller ones — hosted by local schools, etc. BUT if you want to have the opportunity to meet and greet the majority of colleges on your list this is a great opportunity.
Your Smart Plan For College Assignment
After you’ve stopped by all of the colleges you are already considering and investigating, then and only then, if time allows should you start wandering to anyone new.
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In most cases the emotion passes like a quick storm on a hot summer day, but there are times when we make decisions that last beyond the moment and set goals to change our life based on the perceived lack we are experiencing.
When you accept the situations in your life without judging them as good or bad the stress literally melts away. When the stress melts away you are clear to find the best way to reach your objective.
Most of the negative feelings that we experience come from a preoccupation with ourselves. Get outside of yourself,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Think about the needs of other people and how you can make a difference in their lives using the gifts that you have.
Goals that focus on the needs of others have the power to attract people, organizations,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and resources to get them done.
A Better Way
Here are five easy steps that will help you to set your goals and intentions based on personal growth and not personal need. When faced with a problem that you want to establish a goal to eliminate, do the following:
In Todd’s case the need for more money was really a symptom of a lack financial discipline and a mediocre work ethic. In the past when he focused on the symptom, a lack of money, he ended up wasting his limited resources on get-rich-quick-schemes.
As for Todd, his lifestyle goal is to become a person who manages his time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], money, and energy in a responsible and profitable manner. He has found two good people to model and he has reduced his financial stress almost down to nothing. He has a clear picture of what financial discipline looks like and he is becoming a daily reflection of that picture.
Once again, Beth Ann decides in desperation that she must lose 45 pounds as quickly as possible and with tears in her eyes she searches the internet for a new way to reach an old goal.
In that moment he decides that he cannot continue to live like this and, again, vows that he will one day become financially independent.
Challenge #3: High Stress
Need based goals tend to be the most stressful because they are often based on something we are resisting in our life.
2. Look at the big picture
Your life is bigger than what just happened. Don’t make it small. Count your blessings. Focus on the positive. Look at your entire life and not a just one narrow aspect of it.
Remember, in the end it’s the person that you become not the things that you get or the goals that you reach that will have the most lasting impression on your life.
What do Beth Ann and Todd have in common? They are both setting potentially life changing goals while in an emotional state of need.
I’ve learned that whenever I have more work than I can do in one day to simply accept the fact that I have a heavy work load and figure out a way to get it done. At one point I would resist this reality by saying things like, “I can’t believe I have so much to do.”, “This is impossible.”, “I’ll never get all of this done.” Thoughts like these would always lead to high stress and low productivity.
Challenge #2: Ineffectiveness
Highly-emotional need based goals/intentions typically don’t work over time.
Challenge #1: Being taken advantaged of…
When you are in a heightened state of need you typically look for immediate results. You want a quick fix to reverse the results of what you’ve been routinely doing for a while. The two biggest examples of this would be:
I don’t totally disagree with you. When you hit, what feels like, the bottom it is better to decide to pick yourself up than it is to just wallow in despair, but is this really the best time to set life changing goals?
• Quick-weight-loss diet programs
• Get-rich-schemes
When you focus on the apparent need (the symptom) and not the real problem (the cause) it’s just a matter of time before the real problem produces another symptom. In some cases it produces a second symptom that's worse than the first. It is like mowing dandelions. The lawn may look neat and even at first, but in the process you've spread the seeds and left the root.
5. Set daily action goals to address the immediate need.
• What steps do I need to take today to begin my transformation?
• Who can I call?
• What can I learn to help me improve in this area?
• What routine or habit do I need to develop to reach and maintain my goal?
You may be thinking “Andrew, that’s what you should do. The best time to set a goal is when you are sick and tired of being sick and tired.”
Meet Beth Ann…
Beth Ann looks in the mirror and does not like what she sees. “I am so fat.” she says to herself in a whisper. She feels angry and hopeless. In that moment she thinks that she cannot continue to go on like this and decides that she has to do something.
Closing question: Are your current goals transforming you into a stronger,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], wiser, and more enlightened person or are they just getting you what you need?
Meet Todd…
Todd goes to the ATM to withdraw money for lunch. When he checks the balance on his account he discovers that he only has $119.34. He has 10 days before his next paycheck and suddenly he gets that sick feeling in the pit of his stomach as he realizes that two days ago he wrote a check to the utility company and another to his daughter’s school that will overdraw the account.
3. Look for the core problem or opportunity.
Ask yourself:
•“Is this a recurring problem?”
•"Where is this coming from?”
•“What’s feeding this,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]?”
What about you…
We all do it from time to time. You have a bad day at work and while in a state of frustration on the drive home you decide that you really need to be your own boss so you start looking for business opportunities. A friend says something that you don’t like and you decide that you need new friends so you set a goal of getting out more and expanding your social circle,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. You have a point to make and you feel like you need to be heard so you set out to convince the world of how smart you are.
Hold up…
In one of my Seven Goal-Setting Secrets of Super Successful People Seminars, a participant raised her hand and said, “Forget about who I might become. I need the conditions in my life to change right now,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], because right now I am not where I want to be.”
Does “Need” have a place in personal goal-setting?
In Beth Ann’s case her lifestyle goal is to become a person who only eats healthy food and engages in physical activity at least three times a week. She is losing weight and has increased her energy level. She feels good about the changes that she sees in herself and the control that feel she has over her life.
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4. Set a lifestyle goal to address the core problem.
• What skill, talent, or character trait do I need to develop to overcome this challenge?
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Both are multi-billion dollar industries built solely on the collective desires of people who want immediate results at all cost. Not all are bad, but because there are so many it makes it hard to find real solutions to the challenges you may be facing. And the more desperate you are the more open you are to false promises and empty offers.
1. Accept the situation for what it is
Your current situation is simply the place that you have arrived as a result of what you have been doing in the recent or distant past. You can’t change the past so don’t dwell on regrets. When you stop resisting your current situation by simply saying that you accept what is, you become present. Your focus is not on a memory that you can’t change or on worrying about what could happen. You are in the moment and in the moment you have the power to move in the direction of your choosing.
Consider this…
“Need” is a subjective state-of-mind that when satisfied most often temporarily improves the conditions in a person’s life,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but not necessarily the person. What do I mean?
People often come to me because they want/need more. More money, more love, more balance, more productivity, more business, more energy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], more peace, more purpose,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], more joy, more magnetism and charm.
However, the real progress happens when a client realizes that it is not about what you attain or obtain, it’s about who you become in the process.
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So when it comes to mother enmeshed men, it is describing a man who is emotionally entangled to their mother. While it is true that they may live in a different house or a different part of the country; the emotional cord has not been cut.
When it comes to understanding what enmeshment is, it helps to look at what boundaries are. Boundaries are what create a sense of individuality between people. And although we are all physically separate,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it does not mean that we are emotionally separate from another person.
Consequences
The way that the caregiver acts, is more than likely how they were brought up. And as a result of not being aware; are playing out the same pattern.
A Choice
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Familiar
So being responsible for himself is then overlooked and his boundaries will end up being constantly crossed. And as a result of extending himself for his mother,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a natural consequence is being exhausted.
A Sense Of Self
This can create a feeling of being emotionally trapped; because based on these two options, it won’t lead to a sense of peace or empowerment. One can easily end up in a cycle of going through these two extremes time and time again.
Due to only being loved through what they did and not for who they were, it is inevitable that one’s self worth is going to be affected. And based on what one does for others and not for who one is.
Responsible
Two Emotions
On the surface this sounds completely dysfunctional and doesn’t make any logical sense. And one of the biggest reasons that this behaviour is occurring is due the mothers enmeshed mans association of what love is. To his unconscious mind, this is what love means to him.
And for the mother enmeshed man it is a feeling of having no sense of self; other than an identity that is based on being attached to their mother.
The anger can be amped up and turn to rage and may alternate between the two. And the guilt can also become shame and betrayal.
In a functional relationship with boundaries the emotional connection will be choice and what one has chosen. When it comes to an enmeshed relationship, it doesn’t feel that one has a choice and that they are enslaved to the other person.
Undeserved Loyalty
By not being able to say no and to stand up for oneself, the man is caught between these two primary emotions. And this is largely due to the mother enmeshed man not knowing that he is a separate individual.
At a conscious level it is only creating: pain, struggle, conflict and suffering. But to the ego mind this is being associated as familiar and therefore what is safe.
In reality the mother used the child for her own benefit and only harmed the Childs development. And because the separation didn’t occur all those years ago, ones ego can associate separating as being equal to death. This means that overwhelming fear can be triggered were one to separate: with feelings of emptiness, abandonment and rejection surfacing.
This article has covered the basic dynamics of enmeshment and some off the consequences. To the degree that one has been affected by this, will define what actions need to be taken. The first thing is to be aware that such a challenge exists. To deny the existence of something will not change it and can lead to it getting worse.
This is because ones mother is still number one and were one to go with another women there may be feelings of betrayal and guilt that arise. Here one may go for women who they are not completely attracted to, so that they won’t have to emotionally leave their mother. And these feelings are not rational; they are based on the ego minds dysfunctional associations.
The process of separating then doesn’t happen and instead of boundaries being formed, enmeshment is what remains. Part of the reason for this process is often down to having a father that is either physically or emotionally absent.
And on the other side there is the guilt that is felt if one were to say no or was to think about saying no to the mother,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Childhood
What this early conditioning creates is an undeserved loyalty to the mother. As the ego mind associates the whole experience as being what love is, it creates a kind of compulsive need to please the mother.
There are many consequences that can be created from this early dynamic. Having problems with boundaries has already been mentioned. Experiencing a sense of self control will also be very difficult. Another likely issue here is with intimate relationships. Through still being emotionally connected to ones mother it can be a real challenge to let in another woman.
The reason it is familiar is due to it being how their mother treated them as a child. As a result of those early experiences being played out thousands of times,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it is no wonder that its affect is so strong on a fully grown man.
Role Reversal
Awareness
Reading a book and going over what they suggest may be enough for some men and for others it may require some serious therapy. What matters is that something is done to put an end to this dysfunctional attachment.
However,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if the caregiver is unaware of the child being separate, as a result of having no boundaries themselves, it will be more of less impossible to treat the child as a separate being. And by the caregiver being needy and emotionally undeveloped the child will be used for this purpose.
How his mothers feels is then his responsibility and something he needs to take care off. Her wellbeing is something that he has to look after. And what this also means is that his wellbeing and his own needs, wants and desires are often denied and ignored.
Love
So what this leads to is the roles being reversed. Instead of the mother taking care of the Childs development, the child ends up taking care of the mothers unmet needs.
What this experience often creates is two powerful emotions, these are anger and guilt. On one side there is the anger at feeling as though one has to do what their mother says and can’t say no.
One may also feel completely cut off from their inner world. And generally unaware of what their thoughts,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], feelings, emotions and sensations are. Along with this could be a disconnection to ones: needs, wants and desires. This could then result in a feeling of having no personal power.
His mothers wants,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], needs and desires, are not seen as separate from him. Where he begins and ends and where his mother begins and ends: is unclear to him. This then leads to him feeling responsible to his mother.
In recent years awareness has increased around this area and this has lead to more progress being made,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. This is not only limited to men and can affect women in similar ways.
In a functional upbringing a child would be recognised as a separate individual; with their own needs, wants and preferences for example. For this to happen, the caregiver would have to have good boundaries themselves and to see that it is not down to the child to take care of their needs.
This becomes what is known as enmeshment, here one will look physically separate, but emotionally they will feel attached to the other person. One will feel that they have no boundaries between them and as a result that their not an individual.
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So, how are you going to ensure that your girlfriend will not get bored with you? There are many ways to achieve this. Today we are going to look at different ways of keeping your girlfriend interested with the aim of you connecting with her. Getting a girlfriend to date isn't difficult but keeping her interested is where most men find it difficult.
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The fifth and the most powerful way of keeping your girlfriend interested always is by communicating effectively with her. Know her emotions and understand what she wants then judge on the best way you can communicate with her. You have to know how to effectively influence the thoughts of your girlfriend and make her to feel very secure with you always. Develop an intimate relationship with your girlfriend through communication. Make her to trust you completely and to know that you always listen to her. Text and tell her how you really feel,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], tell her that you do care about her always. Call her always to inquire how she is doing. However, you should avoid being needy by texting or calling her now and again.
It is a relationship problem when partners get bored with one another,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. The things you do with your partner are the ones that will keep the relationship alive or too boring. Boredom in a relationship has led partners to breakup.
The first way of keeping your girlfriend interested is taking a retreat. This will help you to reconnect and renew the relationship you have with your girlfriend. You need time alone with your girlfriend so that to reconnect with her and to find the spark that you had in the past before she started getting bored with you as a result of doing the same things over and over again. Take her on a vacation and especially to places where she has never been before and have fun together for a couple of days.
How to Keep Your Girlfriend Interested
After the first date when you're very sure that you have influenced the thoughts of the girl you have fallen in love with through the conversation you had together and actually she is convinced that you're Mr Right she has been searching and dreaming all along,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the challenge after the first date is to keep her interested throughout till you propose to her. If you fail to keep your girlfriend interested throughout the dating and courtship process then I'm afraid to inform you that you might end up losing her to another man. She will find another man who gives her what she wants in a relationship. Keeping her interested is a continuous process even after you marry her.
Are you getting bored in your relationship? Doing the same things with your girlfriend may lead to boredom. After all she already knows what you intend to do with her even before you tell her because she is used with what you usually do together. The things you do are predictable and she doesn't find anything that is thrilling,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], amusing and fascinating.
Keeping a woman interested is the most important thing that men should not neglect nor take too lightly. You have to please the woman you love. Women in general want to be appreciated and treated in a delicate way... like a delicate flower. Pleasing your girlfriend doesn't mean that you do things blindly. No, you have to use your brain to reason out well and do things that are good for you and also to her. You should do positive things together that will bolster your relationship and not the ones that will lead you to self-destruction.
There are many intriguing and beautiful places that you can visit with your girlfriend; perhaps the only obstacle is money. One good thing with a vacation retreat is that it allows you and your girlfriend to connect and spend time together alone. Visiting the beach and spending some days there is a very romantic thing to do together. Think of visiting the beautiful beaches you have heard people talk about a lot. While there you should engage your girlfriend in interesting water activities such as swimming, scuba diving and white-water rafting.
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Going shopping with your girlfriend is the third way of keeping her interested. Women love it when their men accompany them to do shopping although most men will try their best to avoid accompanying their girlfriends or wives to do shopping. There are many places you can take your girlfriend to do shopping so that she has a new wardrobe that will make her to look great and more so to say attractive. Why not take your girlfriend to another town that is well known with variety of fashionable clothes, I'm sure she will enjoy this and avoid the usual boredom that is predictable in your relationship.
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What I said to Peter might seem strange. But his statement was loaded with distortions and generalizations begging to be challenged. Sometimes when communicating with someone you have to ‘blow things out of proportion’, exaggerate things,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], so that when the “dust settles down”, so to speak - specifics remain – the focus of the dialogue is revealed. And that’s just what happened; Peter clarified himself: He was just hired at a company. But whenever a customer asked him questions about a product or service – that he didn’t – yet - know the answer to, he stuttered,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], his breathing hastened,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], his mind ‘drew a blank’… This was Peter’s true issue. And he wanted to make a good impression at his new job,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], so a lot was at stake for him.
THE SECOND thing Peter needed were strategies for dealing with clients who asked him questions he immediately did not – yet- know the answer to. Seeing that personal triumphs also depend on having the appropriate state of mind, I had peter access that specific mind-space where he could creatively generate his own ideas and strategies. We reviewed and tweaked these creative strategies for optimal performance. Having tools for success is one thing. But having the belief and confidence that you can fearlessly put them into action requires that you have in your mind a virtual-database of moments when you were successful because you put these strategies into action … And that’s where mental rehearsal – rehearsal in the past and in the future - and taking part in your own success come into play. I had Peter take his newfound strategies for success and mentally rehearse them in future scenarios. That was fine.
Peter realized that in order to succeed at his new job he needed two things: ONE, change the state of mind he entered whenever customers asked him questions he didn’t yet know the answer to.
Peter’s supervisors intervened - with good intentions – when they realized what has happening. What was their overall strategy to help Peter? “Telling” him what he “should” do to “fix” the problem; basically bombarding him all sorts of theories and concepts. And when those failed, they “told” him another solution; and when that failed as well… they “told” him another solution,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], etc.
So, instead of just “talking” to Peter I made him an active participant in the exercises and strategies which I assigned him. It’s a more efficient way to learn and to fully absorb whatever it is you want to master. Instead of talking about voice-tone and how it influences your state, I had him pay attention to what he was experiencing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], what states he was entering and exiting as he practiced using different voice-tones.
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Athletes who are at the top of their game know that if their goal is to master a strategy, a technique, etc. they need to rehearse the strategy and sequence not just with their bodies, but also with their minds as well. Mentally rehearsing the end desire boosts your confidence, belief about your capabilities as well. Success starts in the mind, and with a mind that has a database of experiential moments you can call upon – as proof that you can replicate success. The point is that talking about an experience is one thing; theory has its limits. Living and experiencing a virtual or a real-world moment is another. And the latter beats theory anytime, and has more impact on an individual-and on you.
I also had him take these same strategies and apply it to the moments in his past – where he performed poorly with customers. Doing this benefitted Peter in several ways: One,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it gave Peter the opportunity to see himself practicing and utilizing his newfound strategies; and, two, Peter was able to see and to experience how things would have had already worked to his advantage having applied his newfound strategies to his - past scenarios. “Knowing what you know now what would you have done differently back then with the “light” of the new choices and options you have.” Of course the past cannot be changed. But you can creatively and successfully use it to your advantage.
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Vitamin Supplements for pregnant women is available by gynaecologists through a prescribed set of supplements and dietary habits. Women must be extremely cautious and alert towards their prenatal health for the growth and nourishment of their baby. Overexertion and heavy exposure to adulterated foodstuffs can cause deterioration of the baby and the mother’s health. The nutrition of pregnant women must consist of a proper balance of all vital nutrients to preserve the health of the unborn foetus. The availability of supplements is nowadays become as easy as surfing the mail. The technique to buy nutritional supplements online has become a trend. Convenience being the idea behind the whole venture,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], buying supplements can be done sitting at home or even at the doctor’s office. This technique of sale of products online has opened up a brand new enterprise that utilises the internet to its fullest ability. The wide range of choice and the quick delivery promises have conceptualised in a clever way and uplifted this technique into a shopping revelation. The technique has given customers the confidence to go back and buy more again.
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Off late people find it taxing to go to malls or shopping centres in search of supplements to compensate for the unhealthy lifestyle they adopt. The most convenient way of purchasing supplements is to buy supplements online. Sitting at home and just a click at the button,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a person will get his supplements delivered at his doorstep. With such easy means of purchasing people must now take their health to be of utmost priority. No excuse is viable when nutrition products are available with such ease. People need to realise to a healthy life is a privilege and is susceptible to damage if abused.
A balanced diet to most individuals is an option that they chose to adopt whereas when a woman undergoes pregnancy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], her eating a healthy diet is no more a want but actually a necessity. This is because she has a foetus to look after and nurture along with strengthen her body to sustain the pain and stress her body experiences. Health supplements for pregnant women include prenatal health precautions and a balanced lifestyle filled with ample of fruits and vegetables rich in proteins. The nutrition consist of high levels of folic acid and vitamin D. Vitamin D is vital for calcification of the bones and increase the blood count of the mother and child while folic acid to eliminate the risk of fatal neural birth defects.
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Focusing solely on yourself allows you to stop depending on your ex and instead learn how be independent and keep yourself happy. This is the best way that you can fix a break up. Once you feel happy with yourself, you'll find the confidence to get your ex back in your life.
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No matter how you wish you can, you don't have power over your ex's feelings and emotions. You can't do anything to make them change their mind and want you back. Coercing your ex back in your life is a sure way to make them run as fast as possible away from you. If you're determined to get your ex back and how to fix a break up then read and apply the next step given.
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Being aware of how to manage stress efficiently involves realizing that you will find an answer to every problem,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], no matter what. It may be that debts are mounting, so seek advice. Inform your bank of your circumstances and request help. There are organizations that will help you too and use the Internet to inform yourself and to find as much help as you can.
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One of the most effective stress reduction techniques to possess is the ability to concentrate on events in your life that you are able to influence rather than wasting time, effort and worry on things beyond your control. This is certainly an exceptionally critical skill to possess during economic downturns such as the current one. An excellent tip to employ the technique is to focus on your chief priorities: Keeping a roof over your head and feeding yourself and your family. Whatever other problems there are come behind these and therefore you can place them on hold and give them more attention when the financial situation stabilizes.
Everybody is going to have to deal with several quite demanding situations at certain times of their lives. There are going to be highs and lows throughout life and during the lows,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], knowing how to handle stress proficiently is key so you don't enter into traumatic periods of depression or anxiety.
What actions can I take so this doesn't happen and what actions can I take should it occur?
You can then follow-up with a second one:
Draw up a list of actions and solutions you can take to minimize the effects. Are you able to cut-out one or two little luxuries? Can you lower expenditure, can you improve the way you do one or two things or buy cheaper alternatives? Can you see the situation as an opportunity to make improvements to your life instead of a life-crisis? The more solutions and meanings you are able to apply to what's going on the less emotionally aroused you're going to feel, the less afraid you will be and you're going to hold stressful illnesses decisively under control as well as keeping yourself healthy and this is going to additionally make sure you're not going to incur additional charges for medical treatment.
It is so important to refrain from allocating total and disastrous meanings to events and an excellent technique is to ask questions. One of the best questions to ask is:
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Since 1997, Herbert Benson, of the Harvard Medical School,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], has reaffirmed that "Sixty to ninety percent of [doctor-patient] visits are prompted by conditions related to stress." Especially in today's world, stress management is truly vital to emotional, relational, and overall physical health. As a psychologist,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I understand that most tend to consider meditative exercises as too difficult to learn; and too time consuming to practice.
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Although activities like watching television and listening to music can be relaxing, they do not illicit the relaxation response that is most beneficial for managing stress. In order to de-stress, people need to do something that sounds contradictory,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], namely engage in activity that is not passive. The Surgeon General recommends physical activity for stress management. One can also manage stress by engaging in self-meditations.
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Rhee In-je,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], seeking the Millennium Democratic Party's presidential nomination again attacked rival Roh Moo-hyun,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Friday on his statements about the media. Rhee said that Roh's comments were factual and should he file a lawsuit,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], overwhelming proof and witnesses would be produced. He continued what was said was not sentiment,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but firm beliefs and irresponsible behavior for a politician.
Rhee said he had confirmed which reporters attended the dinner meeting where the comments were made,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], noting the five came from SBS,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Hankyoreh and the Seoul Shinmun.
Roh replied that if he had said he would nationalize the media last year,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it would have been reported,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as it would have been a major story,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but as it wasn't he "couldn't have said it." He added he would not sue Rhee, not because he couldn't, but because it would not solve anything.
Yoo Jong-pil,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Roh's media adviser said "nationalizing newspapers" was not mentioned at the Aug. 1, 2001 meeting,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but admitted limiting shareholding was addressed,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], similar to the situation at the Hankyoreh. With regard to comments about the stepping down of Donga Ilbo Chairman Kim Byung-kwon, Yoo said the reporters at the meeting, not Roh, talked this about.
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Amid mounting tension between the government and the business sector over the proposed five-day workweek plan and the state regulator's crackdown on chaebols�� insider trading,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the Ministry of Finance and Economy (MOFE) showed a recent article from a Belgian daily,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which criticizes Korean business owners as "dictators,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]," to media firms on Sunday.
According to the Le Soir article on Aug. 4,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], business owners in Korea,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], known as chaebol,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], have been disgorging their discontent over the government's economic policies whenever they feel like it,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and that chaebol businesses operate in an exclusive manner to each other and in a top-down decision-making process. The article also claimed that all business owners who have inherited the ownership are dictators.
Le Soir,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], published in French,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], is known to be the largest daily in Belgium,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with a daily circulation of 170,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],000 copies.
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Cellular telephone users have become the prey of service providers, as the mobile telecommunication sector, which has been ignoring customers' requests to lower service fees,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], is expecting record-high net profits. The telecommunication companies employees are looking forward to promised bonuses,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which are also expected to be considerable,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], thanks to customers suffering from large bills.
SK Telecom,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the industry leader, is looking to realize an unprecedented net profit of W1.2 to W1.3 trillion, while runner-ups KTF and LG Telecom also forecast at least W300 million and W200million, respectively. The mobile service providers' performances are especially noticeable,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and even hard to believe,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as all other sectors, particularly in the IT industry, are in a deep slump.
Incurring a large net profit through good management and operation should be congratulated and respected, far from being the subject of criticism and dispute. However, it is a totally different story if the industry saw such fruitful profits with the government virtually permitting a monopolistic pricing system.
Recently,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], customers held an online protest,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], demanding a 30% cut in the basic monthly rate, as service providers were offering discounts for newly signed up users to increase their market share,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], while no improvement in service was offered to existing customers.
Nevertheless, the government and telecommunication sectors lowered the service charge by mere 8.3%. The industry has its own reasons as some worry about the potential over-heated competition,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], while some need to secure funds to invest in the next generation IMT-2000 project.
However,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the telecom industry's excuses mean they will transfer the risk of possible failures to their customers. Sacrificing the customer to protect certain companies is not only unjust but also runs counter to theory of market economy. Before showing off their profit size, the government and industry must prepare an appropriate measure to resolve customers' aggregated grievances.
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Distortions in thinking are what cause depression,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. These distortions are broken down into 10 categories.
First, to beat depression acceptance is critical. Learn the symptoms, and understand that these negative thoughts and feelings is the depression speaking for you. Understand that you must make changes, and seek help. Depression is not a weakness; depressions afflicts millions of Americans every year,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and is a common illness and if you face your disease,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], seek treatment you can beat it.
Depression is the most treatable of all mental illnesses, and with a few simple daily lifestyle choices,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you can beat depression.
Volunteer, the simple act of giving will make you feel better. In addition, it will get you out in public with people.
Second, seek help. This can be difficult at times, expensive too, but even a simple examination by your doctor can rule out physical abnormalities that could be causing or contributing to your depression. Your physician can also refer you to a psychiatrist. However, get the examination; many treatable illnesses can cause depression.
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Talk to yourself positively, keep doing it even when the depression hits you the worse. Keep telling yourself that these feelings won’t last. Say aloud that you enjoy life everyday; make a mantra that you can repeat of positive thoughts and experiences to counter the negative thoughts. Fight them with positive thoughts. Maybe even visualize picking up the negative thought and kicking it out of your mind before replacing it with a positive thought,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but just keep believing, and saying, and thinking that the day will come when you’ll feel better.
All or Nothing Thinking – Seeing things in black and white, perfection or failure
Over-generalization – Negative event triggers belief one in endless pattern of failure
Mental Filter: One focuses and dwells on a negative detail until everything looks dark
Disqualifying the Positive – The person does not count the positive – only the negative
Jumping to Conclusions – One anticipates negative results without basis in fact
Magnification or Minimization – Magnifying mistakes, while minimizing successes
Emotional Reasoning – Person assumes that negative feelings reflects reality
Should Statements – Constantly using "shoulds" and '"should nots" for motivation
Labeling and Mislabeling – One mistake leads to thoughts of being failure, loser, etc.
Personalization – Feeling you're cause of negative event when had no role.
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